Comments on: Post Traumatic Relationship Personality Transformation

By: Babycakes

Babycakes — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 12:50:26 +0000

wow, a dating blog by a man. This looks good, especially interesting about relationship patterns.

By: Arjewtino

Arjewtino — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 15:50:41 +0000

I know I’m breaking my own rule of “wait three posts before commenting” but Amy’s right.

By: Amy

Amy — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 05:29:39 +0000

great post. you should write for these folks.

By: jess

jess — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 16:42:58 +0000

I love the idea of deciphering patterns. It can be a painful process, as in ‘what’s wrong with me that I’d put up with and/or put on this kind of behavior from/in a relationship,’ but I think it can be a doubly good process. You save yourself, and you save someone else from your own BS.

The thing I think you can gain too is a source of compassion — for the person you once were and for the person you may see mirrored in the S.O. you now love.

By: kerrie

kerrie — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 16:05:56 +0000

1) I’m so happy you’re back, even if it is only for a spell.

2) I should have called you this weekend. Those pearls could have come in mighty handy.

3) The aforementioned pearls, if correct, dictate that I’m going to become a real tool. So, dating hiatus it is!

By: Lemmonex

Lemmonex — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 14:02:46 +0000

People are addicted to dating–and they don’t give themselves times to figure out what the fuck went wrong before jumping in to a new relationship.

By: inowpronounceyou

inowpronounceyou — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 03:09:40 +0000

So DC; You’re very welcome.

KassyK; Dating is the unsung addiction of the modern day…

Karma; I always liked YOUR alter ego better. She makes alot of sense, and she’s got a great set of stems, too.

By: Karma

Karma — Sat, 08 Mar 2008 23:04:44 +0000

Fine, fine. Just ignore the poor, abandoned alter-ego/concept in the corner. Not that you don’t make a very good point.

By: KassyK

KassyK — Sat, 08 Mar 2008 21:32:01 +0000

Wow, this is post IS brilliant.

I have said over the years to people and to myself…the only way to get out of any bad pattern is to STOP DATING until you are sure what you want. I hate dating so for me, its natural to want to be alone after a breakup but I think most people jump back in because of loneliness or horniness or whatever…and its just going to fuck you over.

Amen.

I hope Bill ends up ok.

By: So D.C.

So D.C. — Sat, 08 Mar 2008 20:16:06 +0000

Brilliant. Thank you so much for writing this!